What you should know about
Thailand as a foreigner
Thailand is an
interesting country with different cultures.
Consideration is given to its own people and
Western influence has hardly been permitted to
date.
As a foreigner, you should therefore know what
you should and should not do in Thailand
Behave yourself and stay cool.
Smiling is standard behavior in Thailand.
Smiling is friendly and helps in many situations.
Thais also smile while apologizing.
Thais hate conflict and raising their voices or
losing their temper is seen by most Thais as a
sign of madness.
What is shown in Thai TV soaps is entertainment
and does not reflect real life.
Never try to reason with an official. At best
you will get a smile and then be ignored.
With a police officer, you are sure to get a
very bad result.
Feet / shoes / fingers
Do not point your feet at people or anything at
all. The feet are the lowest and dirtiest for
Thais.
Even if you are sitting with your legs crossed,
you can point at someone.
Take off your shoes when you go into a Thai
person's house or even into some stores and
offices.
Shoes in front of the door indicate that you are
leaving them here. Or do like the people before
you.
It's not for nothing that Thais often wear
slip-on shoes.
Don't point at people or objects with your index
finger - use your whole hand, palm down.
If you want to call someone with it, wiggle your
fingers downwards.
And never point your middle finger - reactions
from Thais to this have already led to deaths.
Head /
Hair
The head is the highest part of a person and
Thais often take care of their hair. It is
therefore a bad habit to touch people there -
unless you are very close.
Clothing
Your skimpy beachwear will probably be tolerated
and your T-shirts are fine when strolling the
streets in tourist areas.
Nice shorts, a nice shirt or blouse counts for a
lot in the eyes of Thais. Wearing nice shoes is
also appreciated.
If you meet Thais in business situations, don't
be surprised if they check your shoes with a
discreet downward glance.
In temples, government buildings etc., shoulders
must be covered. Please do not wear shorts that
show the knee or more.
Take off your headgear, sunglasses and
headphones, turn off your phone and be quiet.
Buddha statues are sacred and must be honored.
So do not touch them, sit on them, etc. Monks
are not allowed to touch women.
Women should never sit next to a monk, as he
will then have to give way.
No meat show
and tenderness
Thais are conservative in this respect. The fact
that many bar girls show a lot of skin is the
rule in Phuket, Pattaya or Bangkok,
but the Thais regard it as dirty and low class.
Topless women are forbidden everywhere, and it
is also forbidden to show your upper body in
traffic.
In public (store - restaurant etc.) the latter
is frowned upon and shows a primitive status,
even if you think your tattoo is cool.
Except in lady bars, most Thais prefer a simple,
gentle life without much physical contact.
Keep your romantic moments to yourself - they
tend not to be appreciated.
Kissing and cuddling may be part of everyday
life in Italy and Spain. In Thailand, it is
indecent in public.
Greeting
Thais greet or thank you with a wai and the word
“Sawasdee-khaa” for women and “Sawasdee krap”
for men.
An apology is also accompanied by a wai for
Thais.
The level of respect is expressed by the height
of the joined hands and the depth of the bow.
The wai is often not returned to lowly people
such as service staff or children.
Foreigners are not required to use the wai, as
foreigners have virtually no social status in
Thailand.
The best way to respond to a wai is with a smile
and a nod of the head.
Some Thais know how to shake hands. If they
offer their hand, they can also manage it.
Royal house
The royal family is
revered by Thais and the law is strict about
insulting royalty.
Therefore, any discussion about the Thai royal
family is strongly discouraged.
Pay attention to the image of the king on money,
pictures etc. and therefore never stand on or
point your finger at a flying banknote or
rolling coin. At the very least, Thais will be
very offended. In the worst case, you could end
up in prison.
Tipping
This is not an easy topic. In simple restaurants
or food stalls, tips are not expected.
However, the higher the category, the more is
expected - often regardless of the service
charges already made.
A tip should be around 7 - 10% of the bill.
Superstition - but not for Thais
Don't whistle at night. It is a Thai
superstition that it is used to summon evil
spirits. In general, Thais do not whistle at any
time.
Other widespread customs:
Don't cut your hair on Wednesdays
Do not leave the house if you hear a gecko.
If you twitch your right eye you will have a
good time
Your finger falls off when you point at a
rainbow.
Ask the monk for a good marriage date, or to buy
a car.
And depending on the region, there is much more...
The law
It always gets uncomfortable and tedious when
you get caught! So:
Never carry drugs on you. Severe prison
sentences are possible.
E-cigarettes are banned in Thailand.
It is forbidden to drive a vehicle with more
than 0.5 per mille of alcohol in your blood.
Thailand drives on the left and those coming
from the left have right of way on roads with
equal rights.
Riding a moped without a helmet or driving
without a valid ID, speeding etc. are
increasingly fined.
Mai Phen Rai & Sabai Sabai
Translated “don't worry” and “relax, take it
easy”. These two phrases summarize a lot of Thai
thinking.
Just don't think too much about things in
Thailand. Many things and memories will remain
and seem confusing at the moment.
Many expats use the code “TIT” when confronted
with some of the most absurd things that happen
in Thailand's everyday life - “This Is
Thailand”.
“This Is Thailand.” And so it is.
For Thais, not knowing or doing something wrong
is embarrassing - you “lose face”.
So don't ask if someone doesn't know what you
want. Just ask the next person.
Expecting things to be like they are in your
country will only cause frustration, so enjoy
the adventure. For every little hassle, you will
also be rewarded with many wonderful moments and
lifelong memories.
This list is not exhaustive, but you can find
much more here
The Thai
social system
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